The Borderline of Being Single or Being Commited


I’m starting the first lines of this post with this unknown quote,

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The quote has said it all as it is loud and clear to what it refers. I arrived at this point of time to write on a state of mind and heart when both are not in sync with each other. I call this state as the Borderline that will decide whether a person is single or is in a committed relationship. The situation could be a disaster for a person who is currently in a relationship. On the contrary, the situation could be a reason of instant excitement and relief who is currently single.

Borderline

I’m narrating two scenarios. Read on…

When a person, who is single, looks around the people around him and finds the following things:

  • The people who are in a relationship are not happy with the love in their relationship.
  • They spend more time complaining and pulling each others legs.
  • The same people spend more time in finding faults with each other.
  • There is ‘ego and hatred in the air’ but ‘not love in the air’.
  • People’s self respect and freedom are put to scrutiny.
  • People are not allowed to follow their dream and passion.
  • People are not allowed to talk and socialize with their friends.
  • People are forced to show a fabricated love by hiding their true inner feelings and emotions.
  • People are crying inside but acting as if they are happy.
  • People telling to others that they are in love but actually they are in misery.

It is here that the person who is single, feels that he was fortunate not to be part of this egoistic and fabricated love.

When a person, who is single, looks around the people around him and finds the following things:

  • The people who are in a relationship are really smiling happily by holding each others hands.
  • The same people are communicating with their eyes more than with their words.
  • There are flowers flying all over along with natural and raw love.
  • The same people are allowed to follow their own passions and dreams.
  • People are allowed to socialize with their respective friend’s circle yet respecting each others privacy and space.
  • People are more understanding and sensible to deal with their sacrifices and lives.
  • People are making their relationship as well as themselves special and loving happily.
  • There is real and natural love in the air and everywhere.
  • Couples holding a single umbrella under the rain.
  • The same people are friends in real life and they are in love with each other.

It is here that the person who is single, feels that he was unfortunate not to be part of this real and natural love.

I feel that I’m fortunate not to be part of that fabricated love. This is why I’m taking my own time to find that natural love.

Anoop

© People and Hearts

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2 thoughts on “The Borderline of Being Single or Being Commited

  1. Beautifully written. Today’s scenarios have been backed up by apt examples. Now looking at the reality……… everything has changed so much around us. The technologies and modernity have influenced so many things and sadly our life is so much lived up based on materialistic principles. Life is measured by quantity of luxury that you could afford adn not by the quality that comes along. Emotions have very little or diminishing value. But no matter what for a heart that believes in love…… will find its beat to love and be loved!!!!! Wishes for you to find your soon 🙂 Enjoy being single till then!!!

    • The reality is very harsh. Yet still some classy love stories and couples are present in this modern times. So what matters is the priority and the heart to sustain a relationship.

      Thank you da. Anyway.

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